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Separation



Separation demands a lot of courage and patience. Separation can be from almost anything and either be temporary or permanent.

At first interpretation, separation would mean either a divorce or a breakup. But is that the only meaning it brings?
These would only be one perception of it.
  
One can be separated from their family due to work, or separation from your friends as you or they have moved. No matter what is the reason for separation it still requires strength to face it, courage to live with it, and patience to await destiny’s plan.
My mother is currently separated from my father as we have moved to another country and he could not travel with us immediately due to some pending work and added to that is the ill-fated Corona Virus. Though we miss him terribly, we know that we will soon be reunited.
My brother too misses his school and his childhood friends. Leaving all of a sudden, and for a person of his age, it disrupts the mind and his routine. Yet, he understands our problems and doesn’t make a big deal out of it.
As seen, both of them have faced major separations that they are dealing with,  having a smile across their faces.
For me separation means being away from things immensely cherished, can be the food we are used to, friends, family environment, school and the fun, the house I grew up in, the parrots flying around my balcony, the activities I would indulge in and the list goes on.
Death as a separation is the ultimate excruciating feeling. It is the separation from the loved ones who surely you will not be with anymore. Even the separation from a pet due to death is hard to take on. 

Even marriages, though happy moments, are separation from parents, siblings to a new life.

Hence, separation doesn’t mean the end either.

And that should be our mental preparation to face our separations.

Have faith in destiny and love your dear ones. Shower them with all of your care. 

Value every moment together

NisMah


28.04.2020

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